But just like everything sexual, there are no rules that require you to peg your partner.
So, first off, you should ask yourself: Do you want to peg them? And, if you do, what would make you most comfortable when doing it?
That's where the conversation should start, and it should continue in that vein throughout the entire process. You, your comfort level and your enjoyment are just as important s your partner's. Never let that fall to the wayside!
If you're not really all that comfortable wearing a realistic-looking dildo, don't. If you feel awkward and uncomfortable thrusting, explore sex positions where the receiving partner can do the majority of the movement. If you're worried about looking un-sexy in a harness, experiment with harness types until you find one you love -- or wear a skirt or some jeans on top of the harness and let the dildo pop out.
At any point, like anything consent-related, you can change your mind about pegging. Just because your partner wants you to do something doesn't mean that you are under any obligation to do it.
However, I assume you're here because you're kinda curious about how to make this happen.
So, with that in mind, here are five steps to help you prepare for pegging:
Preparing for Pegging: 5 Steps to P-Spot Pleasure
So, first off, you should ask yourself: Do you want to peg them? And, if you do, what would make you most comfortable when doing it?
That's where the conversation should start, and it should continue in that vein throughout the entire process. You, your comfort level and your enjoyment are just as important s your partner's. Never let that fall to the wayside!
If you're not really all that comfortable wearing a realistic-looking dildo, don't. If you feel awkward and uncomfortable thrusting, explore sex positions where the receiving partner can do the majority of the movement. If you're worried about looking un-sexy in a harness, experiment with harness types until you find one you love -- or wear a skirt or some jeans on top of the harness and let the dildo pop out.
At any point, like anything consent-related, you can change your mind about pegging. Just because your partner wants you to do something doesn't mean that you are under any obligation to do it.
However, I assume you're here because you're kinda curious about how to make this happen.
So, with that in mind, here are five steps to help you prepare for pegging:
Preparing for Pegging: 5 Steps to P-Spot Pleasure
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