It is bound to happen to anyone who is sexually active—that embarrassing moment. There is, of course, a subjectivity to what makes for an embarrassing sexual moment. For some, it may be queefing. For others, it may be an unpredictable fart, an awkward motion, an odd vocal inflection at the point of orgasm, an insecure performance, an unexpected period, having someone walk in, etc. The list, as I’m sure you can imagine, is considerable. Even if you do something that doesn’t particularly bother you, considering what your partner thinks about it can bring about the onset of embarrassment. What the other is thinking is as influencing and consequential as what you think.
Let’s unpack those embarrassing moments, how they can be explained as part of the dynamics of our role as social actors, and effective ways to diffuse the sexual periods of time when our faces are reddened.
How to Diffuse Embarrassing Moments During Sex
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