Gay sex can be intimidating. If it’s not my internalized biphobia giving me anxiety, it’s the taught compulsory heterosexuality telling me, “Hey! Kissing women is wrong.” I’ve had sex with a couple of women but, both before and after we were intimate, most of them said they were straight. I feel like that experience is unfortunately quite canonical for closeted queer women.
Finding out what you like can be confusing and even a little traumatizing.
Last year was the first time I had sex with another woman who openly identified as gay and as a Lesbian. We were both so excited, and yet we barely spoke. We were nervous and I think we both confused each other because we didn’t know what the other wanted.
How could we? We never asked.
As all Queers do, I leaned on my friends and chosen family for support. Lesbian sex can be really special when both people feel comfortable, safe, and pleased. I wanted to hear what Lesbian sex can look like and feel like from Lesbians, so I asked.
Here are the best Lesbian sex positions, according to Lesbians, and some other insights I gathered about Lesbian sex:
The Best Lesbian Sex Positions, According to Lesbians
Finding out what you like can be confusing and even a little traumatizing.
Last year was the first time I had sex with another woman who openly identified as gay and as a Lesbian. We were both so excited, and yet we barely spoke. We were nervous and I think we both confused each other because we didn’t know what the other wanted.
How could we? We never asked.
As all Queers do, I leaned on my friends and chosen family for support. Lesbian sex can be really special when both people feel comfortable, safe, and pleased. I wanted to hear what Lesbian sex can look like and feel like from Lesbians, so I asked.
Here are the best Lesbian sex positions, according to Lesbians, and some other insights I gathered about Lesbian sex:
The Best Lesbian Sex Positions, According to Lesbians
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